Sunday, January 27, 2008
Play or Sit?
If there is one thing I have learned in all my 41 years on this planet; life is a wonderful game to be played and not watched from the sidelines. You’ve got to take chances and get in the game or you’ll never know what it feels like to score a goal, sink a three-pointer, or make a touchdown.I guess I can quit with my really bad sports analogy now and just ask you to consider this; when was the last time you took a chance? When was the last time you threw caution to the wind and just went for it?
If your answer is, “I have no clue.” OR “Gosh, I don’t remember.” Don’t you think it is time you stepped outside your box before the cardboard starts to rot? (Many thanks to my friend, Phil for that wonderful analogy.) I DO! You owe it to yourself!
Before you walk away thinking, “OK, this chick is off her rocker, she doesn’t know me, she has no clue what I am up against.” You’re right, I don’t really know you and I don’t know what you are up against, but I do know that anything is possible and I mean ANYTHING if you are willing to take a chance.
So with that, I wish to offer you a few things to ponder…
1) You have much more to gain than you do to lose. Think about it, if you go after what you want and get it, you gained. If you go after what you want and don’t get it, you haven’t lost anything – you are right where you were when you started. Right?
2) Every experience, good or bad is an opportunity for growth and learning.
3) When you allow fear to stand in your way, you are just handing your power over to the fear. You and I both know it is no fun being powerless.
4) Create some awareness around what holds you back. In creating that awareness you have the capability to remove the obstacle or jump over it.
5) If you follow your heart, you can’t go wrong.
6) If you follow your heart, and someone thinks you are silly for it, that says more about them then it does about you. Oh, and remember it really is none of your business what others think of you. It is your business what you think of you.
7) Did I mention that you have more to gain than you do to lose? :::smile:::
8) Get out of the past. You have lived it once already, it’s time to focus on the present.
So what’s it gonna be; are you going to sit or are you gonna play?
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Empowerment 4 Life
Posted by Pam at 3:08:53 PM in Creating Change (92) | Permalink | Comments (3)
Comments
Great post Pam! Insightful as always! Points 3 and 4 reminded me of a phrase from Paulo Coelho: "Its ok, when facing fear, to take a step back or move forward and fight it, what's not right is to stay frozen by your panic."Thanks as always!
Efraín
Posted by efrain on 29/01/2008
Efraín, many thanks! I so appreciate your feedback. I love that quote -- what a great reminder!!Posted by Pam on 29/01/2008
Great post.I really like the sports analogies. I believe in order to be successful you have to take bold action, you have to get in the game and every experience is an opportunity to grow and get better. Don't fear the failure, relish the experince and the success is sure to follow.Posted by Rocky on 30/01/2008
